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There are different levels of thinking about divorce. There is the time when you are thinking about it but haven’t shared these feelings with your significant other. There is the time when you do, and their is the time when you suggest it but are not sure this is the solution you seek at all. If you are thinking about divorce but like my friend are asking someone “please, Help Stop My Divorce” then you are reaching out and want to try to make it work. There are very structured ways to go about salvaging your relationship from a fight or collection of fights, but the first step is always taking responsibility for your actions, your part, and stop blaming any part of it on the other person, that is their burden to admit not yours. Once you come to responsibility for your side they will automatically take responsibility for theirs, often it is you giving them permission by coming forth first that releases them from the hold their ego has on them.